Lady Ayse had an agenda to push, and she used it to dominate this guy in order to achieve her agenda. She had to teach him a lesson because he had refused to get on her program. She did not have time to waste so she had to find a shortcut to getting him on board. The mistress used her boots to trample him and once the pain kicked in, he agreed.
Lady Ayse teased this guy and denied him. But that was not the only thing she did to the guy. She did not like some of the things he did when he was turned on and so she used that as a scapegoat to torture and dominate him. The mistress forced the poor guy to lick her high heels and to do other degrading and humiliating things for her and he did.